Everyone is Worthy of Love and Respect

By Super User | Education

Mar 21
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Tomorrow is Human Rights Day and we want you to know that everyone is worthy of love and respect. Many times we fight so hard to earn the love and respect from others that we forget about the most important person that needs to receive love and respect from you – YOU. It’s important for all of us to come to terms with who we are and here’s how to do that.

1. Know that you are not your worst mistakes.

You are who you are today because of everything that has happened to you in the past. We don’t need to carry around labels or mistakes from yesterday as if they define us. Whatever you’ve done, it’s over. It doesn’t have to brand you, particularly not if you’re making the conscious choice to do things differently now.

We can judge ourselves by the weakest moments or the strongest—that’s our choice. Choose to focus on the strongest, and then leverage that pride for more of those moments. Every time you feel good about what you do, it’s one more reminder to love who you are.

2. Know that you have nothing to prove.

I don’t care how esteemed or successful someone is; there are things they’re proud of and things they’re ashamed of, and inside they wish people would see more of the former and less of the latter.

We all want validation. It’s an intrinsic human need to feel connected to other people; and oftentimes when we feel alone, it’s because we believe we haven’t proven how good we are or can be.

You don’t have to show the world you’re good. You don’t have to try to hide the things you’ve done that might not seem flattering. You just need to forgive and accept yourself and trust that other people will, as well.

Being authentic means being vulnerable–letting people see all your different facets, trusting they won’t judge you, and knowing that if they do that’s completely on them.

3. Know that you matter.

Know that you touch countless people’s lives every day, even if someone isn’t blogging or tweeting about it. The things you do have a ripple effect you can’t possibly measure.

Even if not everyone has recognized it, you make a positive difference in the world. Your positive self regard may feel stronger at some times than others, but even the smallest seed of love is valuable because it can grow.

4. Know that positive feelings and actions breed more.

All these warm fuzzy feelings mean very little if you sit alone, wishing you could experience the world differently. Once we accept that we’re worthy of love and our dreams, the natural next step is to actually create those things–not what we think we should do; what we really want to do.

Get out into the world. Do that thing that scares and excites you. Recognize you’re awesome for doing it, even if in just one small step. Give yourself permission to not be perfect, and instead focus on progress.

Love in action every day. Do something kind for you. Do something kind for others. Do something kind for the world.

Acknowledge your weaknesses, work to improve them, but say loud and proud that they will not define you. If you start worrying about the future or dwelling on the past, remember you deserve to enjoy the present–but only you can make it happen.

If you believe that your life is worth so much more than you give yourself credit for, it’s time you were inspired to pursue true “Happyness” at this year’s National Achievers Congress. Join Chris Gardner, the inspiration behind the movie “The Pursuit of Happyness” and our panel of speakers. Sign up here today!

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